Life is full of love.  It is there around every corner, if you look out for it.  It can range from the smallest, kind gesture of a friend to the warm hug from your loved one or partner.  Those that have lost out in love often feel hard done by.  They look around and see others full of happiness and laughter.  If they were to take a step back and look beneath the surface they would see much, much more.  Many people hide their pain with a smile.  Many people suffer below the surface, but on the outside they appear to be glowing and full of happiness.  It is no wonder then, that those who have recently broken from a relationship can feel sad and lonely, alone, when all they see around them is happiness and laughter.  Scrape the surface and people’s lives are often much more complex.  They put on a brave face for the world.  It helps them get through, and there is nothing worse in some people’s eyes, than someone who is constantly down or in tears.

Life does go on and if you have lost in love you may feel it is the end of the world.  It isn’t.  There are many around you that are suffering.  It could be their own pain, the pain of watching someone else suffer and even problems in their own relationship.  Life must go on.  Life is for living and the end of a relationship is often the turning point for something good to happen.  It may not happen immediately, but in time your life will move on and you will see endless possibilities around you.  More often than not you will look back on your previous relationship as one that didn’t quite hit the mark.  It may have felt right at the time, but as your spirit grows and develops in your earthly body you will see other possibilities and perhaps realise that the man or the woman wasn’t really the one for you.  You will go on and blossom, either on your own or with someone new.